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264- Wilfred- “Zoufälleg- Accidental” - 5-30-2024

Wilfred- Zoufälleg- Accidental” 
10 October 877  

Zest for life is important 
It helps you live long  
Forgive others and move on 
Never hold grudges  
Or bitterness in your heart  
You are only ruining your health 
They are not running theirs at all 

Only smile when someone curses you out 
Remember others are facing battles 
That you know nothing about 
Show kindness and empathy 
While you take time to listen  
And to hear them out 
They need a friend 
Not an adversary to hate them 
Be an alliance changer of peace  
And not an ego maker of war  

Understand that time is short for life 
Some of us get eighty years of life 
Some get way less than that  
Make your mark on life 
Do something you are proud of  
That your children-if you have them 
Would be proud to speak of in future times  
And build a lasting legacy of hope and peace  
For your clients and people that you serve  

Far too many people chase after others  
And their emotion laden business  
Trying to be like them  
Act like them 
Talk like them 
Walk like them 
Dress like them, and  
Live like them  

You are you 
God made you the way you are for a reason  
Do not pressure yourself to be like anyone else  
Be your own unique self 
You are a Chosen Child of God  
You are a Masterpiece  
You are Beautiful 
You are Wise  
You are Pleasing 
You are Blessed 
You are a Hard Worker  

Allow me to say this  
Those that try to control you  
And your life  
Or your marriage  
Have no business doing so 

They cannot control their own lives 
And their own marriages  
So they meddle in your private life  
And in your marriage  
To make themselves feel  
As if they are making a difference  
For your country and your family line 

Second point 
Have children when you are ready 
Do not rush to have children 
If you are not ready 
Children are expensive 
And you have to foot the bill 
And then provide for all their needs  
Without parental support 
Why do that to yourself  
If you do not have your own income  
On the side outside your marriage?  

Provide for you and yours first 
And then when you have established your business  
And it is bringing in income  
To outpace your spending monthly  
Then you can start thinking about  
Saving up for having children 

And also make sure you have your money 
With a trusted banker in a different country you can rely on 
It will come in handy  
When everything goes to the dunghill  
With your relatives and in-laws 
Because trust me  
Eventually it will 
In some fashion  
Or not 
 
Love other people  
By having other nationalities  
On staff in your household 
And in your private company enterprise 
And also in your court 
And make sure trust is absolute  
No gossiping or whining 
About you or your spouse 
To their relatives or friends back home 

Why? 
Because it erodes trust 
And then no one would tell them anything  
Because they have a loose tongue 
That cannot be trusted to  
Hold private information sacred  
And if they want to succeed in life  
Then they have to keep information private 
And not repeat things that are said  

Live your own life 
Do not push to be recognized  
Let your accomplishments  
Speak for themselves  
Move on to your next benchmark  
And leave everyone else behind  

Every day thank God for giving you life 
And healthy lungs to breathe  
And a mouth to smile 
And teeth to eat food 
And a jaw to crunch food  

Grow and give 
Give and grow  
Do not give and not get  
Things out of life 
How? 
By listening to the beat of God’s drum 
And His Divine Counsel 
And do not misinterpret it either!  

~ 5-30-2024 
 


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